THE LONG GAME
This week's message was the story of Nicodemus. When we talk about sharing our faith, we most often share instances where there was near-instant response. I shared the Gospel with a co-worker and they prayed to receive Christ. I prayed with my waitress and she broke down and confessed her need for a savior. I preached a message and the entire congregation came forward, repenting, and committed their lives to Christ while laying offerings at my feet. (OK, that last one was a slight exaggeration)
The reality is that most people take a while to come around. Just like Nicodemus. He comes to Jesus, infers a question, and then his encounter ends abruptly. Jesus effectively dismantles his worldview, his understanding of Messiah, calls him out for his sin, and then leaves.
We see Nicodemus 2 more times: Once in John, Chapter 7, where he sorta kinda in a roundabout way stands up for Jesus (or at least for due process), and then once more -this is the exciting one- where he openly, publicly acknowledges Jesus as King. But, it wasn't until after Jesus was crucified.
It took a while, but seeing Jesus on the cross, just like the bronze snake in the wilderness, proved to Nehemiah the authenticity of Jesus as the Christ.
THE POINT
Take some pressure off yourself. Sharing the gospel is not typically a one-time, high-pressure, "Turn or burn, sinner!" situation. I think the healthier, more effective situation is the long game. Take time to build relationship, and give them a real-life "handle" to grab ahold of by living a life that exemplifies the life you say Jesus promises them. Be up front, be honest, and be real, but don't be pushy. It's never a good idea to try and be the Holy Spirit (and don't ask me how I know.)
